TherapureDating and Relationships
Looking for love, finding the same pattern
For single and dating adults who want to understand who they choose and how they connect.
Who it is for
Swiping, hoping, and getting tired
Maybe the apps have worn you down, or you keep landing in relationships that feel familiar in the worst way. This page is for anyone dating, of any gender or orientation. Therapure is LGBTQ+ affirming.
You might be newly single after a long relationship, or dating for the first time after coming out. Each brings its own nerves, hopes, and questions. Whatever your situation, you can talk about it openly here.
- Dating feels like a second job
- You lose yourself in new partners
- You leave before they can
- You attract people who aren't available
What we work on
What we explore
- Dating fatigue
- Burnout from apps, ghosting, and endless first dates.
- Repeating patterns
- Noticing the type you keep returning to and why.
- Attachment
- How you seek closeness, and what happens when it feels threatened.
- Choosing partners
- Clarifying what you want versus what feels familiar.
- Vulnerability
- Being seen early on without oversharing or shutting down.
How Naomi works
Curious about your history, focused on your future
Naomi brings psychodynamic curiosity to how early relationships shaped your expectations of love. IFS helps with the parts that rush in, or run away.
She is direct in a friendly way. If she notices a pattern in the stories you tell about your dates, she'll say so, and you can decide what to do with it.
What can shift
Choosing with more clarity
Some clients start noticing red flags sooner. Others feel steadier being themselves on a date. There is no guarantee of finding a partner; the focus is on how you show up and what you want.
What sessions look like
Your love life, your pace
Weekly 45 minute video sessions. Some clients bring a recent date to unpack, others want to talk about a relationship years in the past. Both are useful.
Fees in brief
Individual sessions
Dating work is usually one on one: $200 for 45 minutes with Naomi or $150 with an associate clinician. Couples rates apply once a partner joins: $250 with Naomi or $175 with an associate, for 60 minutes. Rates and Insurance
With Naomi
$200 individual, 45 min
$250 couples, 60 min
Associate clinicians
$150 individual, 45 min
$175 couples, 60 min
Questions
About dating and relationships
Is Therapure LGBTQ+ affirming?
Can I come while I'm in a new relationship?
Will you tell me who to date?
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Bring the dating stories.
Reach out for a free consultation. Naomi has heard plenty, and she won't judge.